HAPPY LOVEFEST DAY - Love Your Boundaries

HAPPY LOVEFEST DAY!!

Well here we are again it's LoveFest Day and this time the Sun is in Scorpio. Which means we Aries are working in the 8th house and loving our boundaries that protect our levels of trust and intimacy.

What does that mean?

Ok we have through our lives naturally created borders and boundaries to protect parts of ourselves sometimes these have been useful at other times less so when they have created limitations for us in our lives. So having spent much time and many transits working on breaking down the ones which do not serve us so that we can be more open and allow things to flow more easily we now reassess. For some of us we have gone through life with insufficient boundaries and therefore have been vulnerable to manipulation and abuse from others and in that case it has been necessary for us to create new boundaries for our own sake.

So where am I going with this?

Ok let's break it down...............

We have by now got an idea of where we need boundaries in our lives particularly around trust and intimacy.

How many of us have been lied to, cheated on, or let down by people we trusted?

How many have been so closed in behind walls of fear that we were unable to trust or let anyone get close?

Now it's time to look at and Love the boundaries we have which protect our trust and intimacy. Those which allow us to use our intuition in order to know who we can trust and who we can be intimate with. Those boundaries which we have set for ourselves in order to draw a line beyond which any transgressions will lead us to say NO!

I have recently begun a writing project - just for myself at the moment which has been flowing fast as I go through my life and the experiences I have had which created the person I am now. It is far from finished however already it is enabling me to see where I needed boundaries in order to protect myself and where they were missing allowing others to mistreat me and betray my trust so many times through my life. They have also shown me the times when I was not as in tune with my heart and intuition as I could have been and made choices and decisions which were not as loving as they could have been to myself or to others. So it is part of a journey which has helped me to see myself more clearly to trust my own heart more and to know when I have to draw the line in what I am prepared to accept from those with whom I am intimate.

So I am loving the healthy boundaries I have created which support my sense of self within relationships.

I am loving those boundaries which allow me to be me within a relationship.

I am loving those boundaries which keep me safe from being bullied or abused by someone I love but instead to be able to hold my space with love and respect.

I am loving those boundaries which let me know who and how to trust within a healthy relationship and to know when I need to step away.

I am loving those boundaries which allow me to be open, loving and trusting of someone in a relationship so that we can love and support each other without judgement.

So how about you?

What are you loving about your boundaries this LoveFest Day?

Share with us here and let's see if we can expand the love even further by loving our healthy boundaries.

Love Light and Blessings to you

Bernie xoxo

In honour of loving our boundaries here's a song by The Pretenders which says it all.

Tags: Bernadette Morgan, Clear Mind Therapy, LoveFest Day, Official Aries LoveFest Day Blog, Soulgarden.tv

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Comment by iBe\Virgo on October 30, 2011 at 1:54pm: Boundaries are like houses, every now and again they need renovating. So as i revisit this incredibly deep subject of boundaries in my sphere- I am grateful that I am building up retaining walls and smashing walls to put in windows! {in my heart and soul that is...]

XOXOX- thanks for the great read and share Bernie!

Violet

Comment by iAm\Aries on October 28, 2011 at 3:36pm: I know I have been singing for days now Mimi I so love it and it just sums up where I am right now.

Thank you I would never imagine anything else. Damn I have some sorting out to do but I suppose that's what chapter one is supposed to show us.

Love you my dear friend

xoxoxo

Comment by iBelieve\Sagittarius on October 28, 2011 at 12:35pm: Aw! The song is perfect! I will now go and serenade myself with the song I'll Stand By You!

Thank you for being such a powerful influence of boundaries :) ( I mean in that in a very positive manner! ) your aries strength always inspires me!

LOVE YOU!

Comment by iAm\Aries on October 27, 2011 at 10:00am: Oh I am being kicked in my Virgo rising as well as my Sun at the moment Mardi. Seems like i have been quietly building walls over the past year which really have not helped with some of my relationship issues. They kept me from feeling when things were tough but they also caused me to shut out and chase away people I really love and want in my life, so I am really having to reassess and start to fix things.

Love you xoxox

Comment by Mardi Shakti on October 27, 2011 at 9:53am: Totally relate; Love Self-Love, boundaries, protection...

As a Virgo, this means the Sun is now in our 3rd house of day to day community, brothers and sisters (blood or soul), and the Human Mind.
So, Loving the Boundaries we have which allows some into our inner-circles, and the boundaries that we have to prevent being afflicted by the human gossip and dramas.
We stay safe by choosing our small communities, and our shallow debates ;)

any more to add on Scorpio Sun in the 3rd?
Xoxo

Comment by iAm\Aries on October 27, 2011 at 9:44am: Tori

Thank you so much that is so kind of you I truly appreciate you.

Love you

xoxoxo

Yes Happy LoveFesting and Lightcasting methinks I have some writing to do for myself

Comment by iAm\Aries on October 27, 2011 at 9:42am: Aww thank you Lisa you know that's what did when I was writing it too, it's just the perfect song for what's going on for we Aries right now and I am getting my own kick on boundaries right now. You are very welcome my friend

Love you xoxoxo

Comment by iGiveiRecieve\Libra on October 27, 2011 at 8:42am: Enjoy reading the blog while playing the music video to feel the love of the writer. Bernie, thanks for always being there to help me through the darkness into the light...with love, Lisa online:)